Structure
Verb + ように + Verb[て] + ほしい
Noun + のように + Verb[て] + ほしい
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About ように~てほしい
(A) ように~てほしい is an expression in Japanese which combines the auxiliary verb, ようだ, with the てほしい structure (indicating that you/someone else wants someone to do something). As ようだ is being linked to a verb which comes later in the sentence, it will take on the adverbial form ように.
This expression is used to highlight that you (or someone else) want someone to do something 'in the way of (A)'.
Note that when ように follows a noun, の will be required.
Either に or が may mark the thing that the speaker 'wants' to do. It is more common for に to be used to mark people, while が will often mark events/objects.
Fun Fact
Sometimes が and に will be switched, if either of those particles have already been used somewhere else in a sentence. This is mainly to avoid sounding repetitive, or confusion about what the subject of the sentence is.
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トムに友達ができるようになってほしい。I want Tom to be able to make some friends.
Synonyms
ように・ような
As・like, Just like
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ようにする
To try to, To make sure to, To endeavor to
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がほしい
To want something, To be in need of
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てほしい
I want you to
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ようにいう
To tell, request, or order to do (in such a way)
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ように
So that, In order to, In such a way that
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ブラジルのように負けて欲しくない。
I don't want (you) to lose like Brazil.
どのように書いて欲しいですか。
In what way do (you) want me to write this?
ウサインボルトのように走って欲しい。
I want (you) to run like Usain Bolt.
頭がよくなるように勉強して欲しい。
I want (you) to study in a way that allows you to become smart.
私たちの子供には君のようになって欲しい。
I want our children to become like you.
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ように~てほしい – Grammar Discussion
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Chiinox
I have a question about the example sentence
" ブラジルのように負けて欲しくない" - “I don’t want you to lose like Brazil.”
The following sentence isn’t accepted:
" ブラジルのように負けなくて欲しい"I’m wondering, does it change the meaning, or is it not grammatically correct? If so, why? Moving the negative from ほしい to 負ける. In English it’d be the difference between “I want you to not lose” / “I don’t want you to lose” which is basically the same thing.
IcyIceBear
Opposite meaning the way I see it. (If it’s grammatically correct I’m not sure)
The correct answer
“I don’t want you to lose like Brazil”
ブラジルのように負けて欲しくない like Brazil, lose, don’t wantThe one you tried
“I want you to not lose, like Brazil”
ブラジルのように負けなくて欲しい like Brazil not lose, wantThe first, Brazil lost and I don’t want you to be like them
The second, Brazil didn’t lose, and I want you to be like them
nekoyama
This should be 負けないで欲しい.
As for the difference in nuance…
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